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EMOTION, FEELINGS

Upward spiral. Take steps to support, recognize the signs and become aware, opening the gates to heavenly inflow.

  • Selfless Realization, Understanding, Wise
  • Benevolence, Beauty, Truth
  • Love, Intimacy, Relationship
  • Compassion, Generosity, Charity, Hope
  • Kindness in the face of anger, Good speech
  • Equanimity, Good Thoughts, Contentment, Acceptance
  • Patience, Kindness, Submission, Well-mannered
  • Patience in the face of ignorance
  • Consideration, Thoughtful, Composed responses
  • Peaceful, Settled, Focused, Solitude
  • Self-control, Personal power, Creative energy
  • Appreciation, Trust, Respect, Honor
  • Friendship, Companionship, Loyalty, Strength
  • Encouragement, Support, Inclusion, Harmony
  • Passion, Enthusiasm, Optimism

COMPASSION, EMPATHY, CHARITY

The very act of trying to help people is the key that unlocks the flow of divine energy. Offer yourself, saying, I will help. I will listen, I will care, I will teach, I will give my time, I will share what I have. Just as a mother is especially anxious about a sick child, be even more compassionate towards the unwise and those who engender bad causes. These unfortunate beings need assistance more others. Although it may be difficult to see when confronted with attack, harm, and ill-will, being lied to, assaulted, stolen from, and cheated, the main issue is identification with self, and inability to see the totality of being, of which both yourself and all other participants are merely players upon the stage.

Plant Karmic Seed Causes (who gives, receives). Charity and generosity based in compassion and empathy is a step forward, planting a viable seed both within yourself and others. However, don't stick your nose into other people’s business, only managing to irritate, rather than help. Wait to be asked, but make yourself available. A 'do-gooder' is either to be avoided or to be taken advantage of, and milked for all they're worth. It’s an art to offer yourself, but set limits on your kindness, and respect other people’s need to do things on their own.

The primary way to lead ordinary beings to the teachings is generosity, to speak pleasantly and supportively, and give them food, clothing, and other material things, meeting their basic needs. Recall the kindness of numerous beings that you will never know the names of, who have contributed to your safety, well-being and good fortune in the past. Honor the victorious ones, who have achieved greatness and have taken the time to turn back and assist you with their teachings. It is an act of merit, magic and self-improvement to give up your own happiness in order to relieve the suffering of others. Mothers do this all the time.

Give of your resources, so you come to know selfless generosity. Don't think of the benefits of giving, nor that you will make merit, thereby reducing generosity to a calculated transaction. Even if you have many bad actions following you from the past, this does not diminish the merit you may gain by doing good actions in the present. Generosity is the best weapon for cutting the knot of miserliness. Knowing this, the wise have devoted themselves to the excellent path of completely giving away their body, possessions and merit.

Share your money, give away your hold on yourself, and all you possess. It's slowing you down. Give your body as well, and don't fear hunger or pain. Your body is just the vehicle, the carrier, but you are in control. You are the master, so act like it.I will ask more, I will ask you everything, I will ask for your life. It is mine to take, at any moment I wish, so give it freely and I will give it back to you again, to use wisely.I cannot do it for you, you need to make the change. Do not fear, you will be rewarded, with riches beyond imagination. Give everything away. I command you, and you must obey. All is revealed in a moment, and it takes only a moment. Stop eating, give away everything, wander freely, coming into life and love at every moment. Grow old or not, it doesn't matter to me, and it shouldn't matter to you. You don't grow old, because you have no body, you are nobody (no body). A person grows old and dies, but it is not you.

Suffer willingly. Cheerful endurance is one of the steps. Willingly assume the burden of our own misdeeds and the suffering of others, embracing change and atonement. Develop humility and modesty, using your time on earth to benefit others. Be of service, and rather indifferent to mundane concerns.

A BUNDLE OF JOY

The people enjoyed immensely all the fun and novelty of encounters with this unpredictable fellow, this innocent savage. It was impossible to keep him in order. He would burst out in new frolics, new tricks and mischief, drolleries and clownings, for which they were always unprepared. Yet he was never cynical or unkind. It was pure fun, with all the refreshment of pure fun. In India, they say that such joy and fun come out into this world from the state of spiritual Bliss known asananda. One sometimes sees or hears masters dancing madly, laughing, rolling about in ecstasy. But while we laughed and enjoyed ourselves we did not see what was there before our eyes, proclaiming itself by the age-old way. Bliss, the harbinger of divine manifestations, is the goal.

Maintaining a state of joy indicates that most systems are functioning well, like in the pickup truck when it is in optimal condition. A state of disrepair, on the other hand, may stem form any number of causes. Treat the root cause, and most misfortune and distress will disappear, including physical illness, itself the final result of a number of errors being compunded over time. For we little understand the complexity of the body, functional integrity, nor the required inputs, not limited to food, digestion, and the mistakes being made in that regard. Look to purpose, understanding and discipline to pursue the root causes.

Love all and especially those suffering, and attacking, helping those who come near and ask. Maintain real gentleness, giving rise to a quiet manner and gentle ways. Wander among strangers, unknown and unseen, radiating joy. Speak little, and only when spoken to, performing with the eyes of an abashed child. Better that you should study and practice the teachings through helping others, than to make any fuss over yourself.

PATIENCE

The true measure of a teacher is how much abuse the master can respond patiently and kindly to, and just how much cause is required before they lose their temper, and lapse into anger. When the time is right for you to guide others, those with faith will gather around you.

It's a challenge to maintain a restful mind in meditation, in a quiet place, but the real test comes when you go back among people, with their diversity, and opposition to your will. The trick is to have no will, or rather adopting the face of the Lord as your face (performing well, both in the sense of acting as well as doing a good job), no longer having a self to oppose.

Patience is the balm of anger, and protection against abusive language. Consider faults you notice to be a personal challenge, testing your patience and seeing how far you have progressed. Do not speak abusively. Even if some unkind words are said in a moment of forgetful anger, one can set matters right by an apology. Be quick to admit error and wrongdoing, as the first step towards making amends.

Gentle by nature, sensitive and compassionate, foolish people may seek to take advantage, thinking to lie and cheat. Be patient with their ignorance, and have compassion and pity on their error and folly, for their wages are death, and in the short run, misfortune and suffering.

It’s the same old story, I didn’t have enough patience or interest in another person to listen more than a few minutes to the older man at Pai, getting bored with the linear nature of words and storytelling, although everything he said was nice enough, all good words, a bit slow and one-sided for me though. I’m very quick and need to be careful in speaking or listening to others to be kind and patient, bridging our respective understandings better. similar mistakes with poor Andrew and his wife, both so full of opinion and self as to be unbearable, a real challenge to be able to present more kindly towards them, and in a way that they found charming and endearing.

Abuse from inferiors should be seen as isolated and trivial, a reflection of their limitations more than of your own. Through patience, merit is acquired. Whoever is patient with the source of anger develops merit. Even contempt and ridicule of others is preferable to you committing bad deeds or displaying undisciplined anger in bad speech or action. Bad thoughts and the intention towards anger are more subtle, advanced battles.

EQUANIMITY

- Build your church upon a rock, not on sand, where winds may blow and destabilize the foundation -

Develop equanimity, not being moved easily by either compliments and praise, nor being upset by criticism and attack, even to physical misfortune. Whether others applaud you or criticize you, you must learn to turn away from both craving and enjoying praise and avoiding and disliking blame or criticism.

Develop emotional stability, neither becoming unduly moved by compliments or beneficial circumstance, nor overly concerned by loss, attack, or hardship yet retain childlike enthusiasm and equanimity. If the outward situation calls for it, act like a powerhouse, or a stern disciplinarian, but remain the actor, unmoved internally. Let it be a challenge to your ability that others cannot discover the difference.

    8 WORLDLY CONCERNS

    Seeking gain, avoiding loss.
    Seeking pleasure, avoiding pain and suffering.
    Seeking praise, avoiding blame and ridicule.
    Seeking fame and honors, avoiding disgrace.

Become aware of, and then reduce the frequency and intensity of bad thoughts, and then negative emotions in turn. Do not harm beings of any kind in any way. Make distinctions between positive and negative actions. Applaud positive actions and discipline harmful ones. If you indulge in anger, it makes your persona harsh and coarse. Be glad upon seeing others' success, and do not belittle their accomplishments. At the same time, try to diminish you own pride and self-importance.

Your practice should not stray into a shallow desire for happiness. Transcend both pride and joy, suffering and pain, resting in momentary being and infinite connection. Experience true loss and pain, and learn fearlessness, accepting death and suffering along the way.

One should not overstretch, nor understretch. If one thing is over-stretched, something else gets understretched. If overstretching comes from a swollen ego, then understretching results from a lack of confidence. If overstretching is exhibitionism, understretching is escapism. Stand up for your rights, stand up and fight for what is right. On the other hand, leave others to their own devices, not to say leaving them unassisted, for the rope having been thrown, it is still up to them to catch hold of it. Holding their hands, would you live their lives for them as well?

Be aware that all is one, and that they are yourself. Interact without judgement and anger, accepting their ignorance as a reflection of their state of development, not taking insults or attacks personally, don't give them credit for so much power.

If children, or adults that are as children, if mocking, don't get angry or take it so personally, just as you are learning to love and have compassion and wisdom for unskillful drivers. A true Hassid is able to withstand ridicule and attack, without discomfort, never mind losing their cool. By the time I'm frustrated and annoyed, the battle is far along already. Regain my equanimity and super-cool. Reserve anger for battle, if suffering an actual attack that requires a response. Even in the extreme, a true master would limit anger, in order to respond with a clear head. Remember the movie with the submarine captain learning to lead. Make a decision, take action, take control.

Be blessed with patience in listening to attacks against yourself, and don't get overly upset even though unkind and destructive words are being hurled at you, injuring your well-being, assaulting your sensibilities, and cursing your future achievements and success. Despite the attack, may you be blessed with the wisdom to reply kindly and tolerantly, like with the unskillful drivers on the road. If repetitious, depart if necessary, but not holding malice in your heart, but rather compassionately understanding their ignorance and limitations, wishing them happiness and growth as they in turn will help others as they mature, whether in this life or in future incarnations.

Be appreciative of enemies and difficult or challenging circumstances. Without adversity, nothing appears to need improvement. Be grateful that error was revealed, so you have clear targets to work on. Suffering is beneficial, as it awakens the student to reality, and helps one notice what is valuable, and what is distraction. Not just blind forgivenesss, as a dolt repaying evil with goodness, but actually grateful and happy to learn lessons from them, and have the opportunity to teach as well. Further, have compassion, for their errors have karma built in, and wishing nothing but the best feelings of happiness for all beings, lament their punishment as if it were your own, for they are you in fact, more than you may realize.

Whether others applaud you or criticize you, you need to turn away from both craving and enjoying praise, as well as avoiding and disliking blame or criticism.

Padampa Sangey - Approach all that you find repulsive. Anything you are attracted to, Let go of it. Don't be puffed up by pride and accolades, and Don't be dragged down by criticism, attack, or loss.

Padmasambhava - Adverse conditions are a practitioner’s true wealth, a golden opportunity for advancement in letting go of both obscurations and attachments. Not just as testing, but valuable challenges through which to grow deeper in understanding and realization of the ephemeral, as compared with the root nature, which is unruffled both by fortunate as well as unfortunate circumstance.

WITHOUT FEAR

Go without fear, for even as you may dislike torture and pain, you were born to bear it. Conquer physical pain and isolation, for what more can befall you. Challenge yourself at every opportunity.

Manage your fears, for they get in the way of study, practice, and performance. Even as you may fear loss of accumulated wealth, and the security it brings via food and shelter, compare with the fear and suffering that kind and gentle people felt as they were killed, and chased from their homes, attacked by armies and brigands.

Compare your misfortunes with the good luck even to have been born. Don't regret birth as a waste of time, a useless enterprise filled with boredom and distraction. Rather, take advantage of what is given, make the ebst of the hand which you have been dealt, and in fact deliberately chose for yourself. Use your time wisely, and dedicate your wealth towards establishing a center where interested souls may gather, learn, and grow food. Buy goats, cows, ducks, etc, that may give milk or eggs, not killing animals. Raise crops, earn online, teach others freely, practice and share.

SELFISH PRIDE

- Self, ego, possession (possessed by demons) -

Don't get caught up thinking about my and mine, for all things are all beings. It is a manifestation and limitation of human consciousness that you may believe you possess individual separation, so how can you own anything? Don't confuse the luck of placement and usefulness with the pride of ownership. When workers earn their salary, they think of the boss as the giver. Similarly, when the boss pays them, in error he may think with conceit, 'I am the giver.'

Love of self is the root of ignorance, while love of service and assistance to others is the antidote. If you reamin unaware of, or insensitve towards other beings, it is much easier to harm them as you can’t feel their pain. Not simply to serve and help those that we come into contact with, but further, to abandon free-will and personal identity, offering a vessel for the angels to use.

It is easy to misunderstand, thinking our motivation is to help others, when in fact, our actions only serve to cement the idea of a self that is involved. Action may be accomplished at the right moment in time, for the right purpose, without undue affection for the notion of a self. That's the magical aspect, allowing the Lord to move the body.

If you show signs of spiritual accomplishment but do not give up your ego, you may puff up with pride. If you endeavor to benefit beings but remain entangled in self-centeredness, you may be a fraud. Be generous, without hoping for a reward. Observe impeccable discipline for its own merit, not hoping to be seen and praised by others.

Even attainments can be obstacles, if you are proud of your accomplishments. Who is proud? You have already identified as a self, and thus are lost to higher prerception. By removing yourself from the simplicities of the senses, may you gain the wisdom to be able to read signs. Having developed the ability to see and read signs, follow the directions posted, and don't be distracted from the path, leading to your chosen goals.

- Fame, popularity -

Take steps to decrease self-importance, pride, and arrogance. Cast off political power and wealth as though they were sugar-filled candy. Discard wealth and possessions, and do not not wear rich clothing nor beautify yourself. Treat yourself well, for there is no self but you are a part of the Lord's plan, and part of all that is. Spiritual instruction is not a livelihood, so do not charge for your understanding, and give freely to all who ask. Do not publish hoping for selfish, material gain.

A yearning for wisdom may be pride in disguise, so do not succumb to it. Many brilliant minds were seduced by the attraction of what might be known intellectually. Don't seek to understand too much, and be content to know a few things well. Better to study only a few lines, and be able to incorporate the meaning and value into your own life, than to read many great books, and yet assimilate only a fraction.

Abandon the desire to have many followers, as students and well-wishers present many obstacles to tranquility, possessed of their own difficulties, and requiring your services. If being honored, or spending time among beings of lesser achievement, we must learn to diminish our sense of arrogance and pride.

If you become famous accidentally while yet avoiding praise, and many admire you, notice that worldly fortune is without essence, and do not become conceited.

Disentangle yourself from the ways of the world. It's all too slow, kind of tiring, like children's games. Get up, stand up, and your voice will flow out from within you, truly and finely. You are a creative entity, so create. Sure, you can make money to overflowing, enjoy women and wine, but choose wisely, choose deeper joy, look further ahead, as death is the equalizer, the leveler.

ANGER, ATTACK

- Patience with attack and ignorance -

Just as a physician is not upset with someone who loses their temper momentarily in the pain of disease, great teachers see disturbing attitudes and ignorance as the enemy, not the person who is expressing them. The skill of dissolving others' anger and distress is wisdom. Don't turn away, look down, or make fun of their ignorance, for they associate with similar people, supporting one another's wrong views and lack of understanding.

To make peace in difficult situations, you need to care enough to interfere, and risk becoming the target of others' frustrations. Don't push people too fast, stretching their limits. The results may be unexpected, and unfortunate.

So easy to lose sight of the all-encompassing oneness of being, thus anger and outrage. You may naturally think, 'How could this person be so heartless and cruel? Don't they know anything about karmic causes, and realize the seeds they are planting?' In fact, it's not what you think. They are yourself in fact, as hard as that may be to recognize in the moment of your distress. You have materialized them into association, drawing to yourself special lessons that you have chosen, in order to grow. It is up to you how you react, and what you make of the lesson, but know that all lessons must be learned, and avoiding the instruction just postpones the lesson to a later date. All is revealed, and there is nothing that remains hidden. Enjoy your manifestations, all that you select.

Though unpleasant to hear, bad words are not intrinsically harmful. Most of the harm from others occurs in your own mind. It is said that unpleasant words end previously done ill-deeds. Feel compassion and sorrow for the attacker, not anger at their words, as if somehow they have magical powers and are able to deliver a valid curse. It takes years of training which they lack. You are sometimes assigning them powers that they do not possess. First there is confusion, in the middle there is anger, and later there is understanding and resolution, coming in stages. Help them through their development.

Unfortunate, ignorant people are prone to attack, so even if someone ignorant attacks me, it is still my choice whether to feel upset by their attack, reflecting on defense of myself, or rather to feel compassion at their ignorance, and feel to help them. Just the process of pointing out their attack to them, shining a light on the situation, already makes me feel better, not defending myself, nor entering into argument about the merits or foolishness of the attack.

Anger, intolerance, and spite may be calmed by patience, gentleness and compassion, and the realization that objects and events surrounding us are created more in our perception than in substantive reality. We do not notice that we brought on the bad events. Trust your instincts. If it feels wrong, don't do it, don't get on it, don't stay there, don't go there. As for bad people, they are yourselves in fact, so the lesson is much simpler. You are choosing it. If you don't like your choice, choose something else. Sometimes, you have to experience your accumulated bad karma, and move on.

Losing your temper wears you out, embarrasses you, and wastes your time. Desire or anger arising from just cause is difficult to release, but circumstantial causes are easier to deal with. Both must be understood and mastered. Anger is lasting pain, and can be the cause of unwise errors, creating grave non-virtue. Thus constant awareness will alert the wise to the cause, and swiftly bring an end to disturbing attitudes. Better to pursue redress and solution, even swift and sure punishment, than to stew in feelings of anger and resentment, inflaming scathing sentiment, railing against the unfair nature and ignorant circumstances that gave cause to the pain.

Don't harbor painful, angry feelings, as the mind experiences little peace thereby, and if restless cannot sleep. You must learn to express your anger, and then let it go. Anger is a tool to be used in the hands of the performer, not more than that. Unresolved anger brings unhappiness in the present and in times to come as well. Therefore, one should disentangle oneself from anger and prefer to pursue more worthy objectives.

Ensure that you fight for a worthy and righteous cause, if the choice for battle has been enjoined. By the time your anger has progressed to actual combat, guard that your mind is clear, your heart loving and kind, that your actions are gauged to remove threats, or reduce harm to other beings, not increase it. Counsel and forgive, remove or comfort doubts or anguish, and take care of your adversaries.

What use is there for the weak to get angry, for they cannot fight. What need is there for the strong to get angry, since they have no worthy enemy? Therefore, no matter what one is doing, anger is a self-consuming fire. Anger is irrelevant in attaining one's objectives. Engaging in anger or the recollection of anger sets the mind on fire. So cherish forgiveness, and learn to distance yourself from those who would harm you.

Through anger, those who are powerless only succeed in making themselves look bad, but one who has power and is merciless is said to be much worse, a tyrant. Although aggressive and demanding people may think they have succeeded in getting what they want, it is more likely that they are busily forming the causes of their own future pain.

UNSORTED

- Obstacles, concealment, judgement -

Don't try to conceal your own faults, and don't blame others for theirs, even though they are only your own projections. Don't mention the faults of others. Work on yourself, which is more available to you, and more likely for you to be able to change. If through the influence of disturbing emotions, you point out the faults of another, You yourself are diminished.

Do not begrudge the ignorant their limitation, for what more have they, and what more can they do? Whether others have good or bad qualities is hard to know, so don't pass judgement.

- Obstacles, distraction -

When, just as you start to realize the all-encompasing nature of being, and it seems that there is nothing more to be done, beware of losing focus in your practice. A lapse into a trance-like state of blankness can be mistaken for immersion in the utterly lucid nature. It takes great non-effort to maintain lucidity of mind, without distraction.

Beware laziness, under which influence you may put off developing one-pointed meditative stability, yet maintaining the hope for some result without effort.

- Debate, sharp wit, self-defense, patience, kindness to ignorant attackers -

The master's words struck a chord in me. What? No defense? Any student of mine must be able to defend their ideas, their persona, their 'self' against any attack. No matter how you spend your life, your wit will defend you more often than a sword, so keep it sharp. Indeed, lacking training and practice, a beginner may be haplessly at a loss to simply defend pithily against lesser attackers, cruel and unevolved bludgeoners. Caught unawares, how many gentle-natured souls have frozen, floundered, and fumbled in return, making themselves an easy target for ruffians and cruel-hearted assailants. Better to take acting lessons, public speaking classes, in order to sharpen wits, eager for practice. Same with PUA and game, not so much for girls, but rather for general self-improvement, and increase in perceived value.

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Express the full range of emotions available. By expression, you create reality. Be happy in the face of extreme discomfort and suffering, encouraging people around you. The true test is within, such as when you feel genuinely unhappy. Start by choosing goodness and thinking good thoughts in the face of what you are feeling. Go on to start speaking positive words, and do acts of service for those less fortunate than yourself. Helping others will cheer you up.

We can develop some flexibility once we understand that we are the authors of our perceptions. If we can’t change our thoughts, if we can’t forgive, we will be stuck in those emotions. A person who has forgiven someone feels free from the person, instead of being trapped. Most people are victims of the past and of their perpetuated and exaggerated perception of it. The longer deluded perceptions drag on, the harder it is to let go of them. We need to forgive the past, and to forgive ourselves for our failings.

Not free and unharmed to stay, but rather suffering hostility, unkind and aggressive words, themselves damaging as are the feelings and ignorance spawning the attacks. It's good to feel gentleness and trust in patience and long-suffering, but also realize that the pain of parting and being on your own, meeting your own needs, is the better choice.

Take care not to be trapped in a limited space with untested, unknown strangers, as their perspective may differ radically from my own, and their unsolicited feedback, or outright argument, may be detrimental to my peace of mind. Recall the biterness in India, driving with a vindictive man, sharing the journey from the airport to Dharamshala.

Many have suffered so greatly, and would benefit from your love and kindness. read girlschase and brightside, not allowing yourself to be caught in a negative energy loop or spiral pit, but rather working towards increasing your strength and radiance.

Suffering and ignorance having been removed, joy remains.

Caretaking, co-dependence, emotional problems, psychology, inner child, unresolved issues of conflict, saying no, setting boundaries.

We create heaven or hell on earth, by the way we live, the associations we form or accept, and our attitudes, beliefs, perceptions, actions.
- attack, desire for revenge -

Conquering enemies who seek to harm you only means trouble in diverse forms. better to leave their nonsense behind, counting your losses as valuable lessons. Spiritual attainment comes with no shortcuts, not that you would want any, as the rewards are built into the experience. Indeed, the path is the process.

- response to suffering -

Your body may be in pain, you may have suffered a great loss by the death of a friend or loved one, you still have power remaining, even if you think you do not. You may bring comfort and support to those around you who also are suffering. And if your troubles are less demanding, then reflect that nothing lasts forever, and feel lucky that you are not dealing with more serious issues. You can work it out, we believe in you. Aim higher and try harder, to actually feel undisturbed in the face of suffering, and then you have achieved something real. Improve your ability to feel strongly, and you have livened up your life. Give love and support to those who have earned merit.

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Yoga looks on greed, violence, sloth, excess, pride, lust, and fear as natural, if unwelcome, manifestations of the human disposition and predicament that are to be solved, not suppressed or denied. Our flawed mechanisms of perception and thought are not a cause for grief, but an opportunity to evolve.

VIRTUES and DEFILEMENTS

The Cardinal Virtues
prudence, temperance, courage, justice

The Seven Contrary Virtues
humility, kindness, abstinence, chastity, patience, liberality, diligence

The Seven Heavenly Virtues
love, faith, hope, charity, fortitude, justice, temperance, prudence

truth wisom, study, perserverence, effort, good will, honor
awareness, insight, intelligence


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SELF
Egotism – excessively conceited or absorbed in oneself
narcissism, Conceit, excessive pride in oneself
know-it-all
Pride – satisfaction in ones own achievement and successes
desire for fame
Fame – a state of being known and admired by many
Showoff – to boastfully display ones abilities
Ostentatiousness – pretentious show in an attempt to impress others
Voluptuousness – being lush and abundant to the pleasure senses
Vanity – excessive pride in ones appearance or achievements, self-centered, self-interested
Arrogance, Haughtiness – exaggerated experience of ones own importance, superiority
Imperiousness – domineering in a haughty manner, dictatorial and overbearing
Dominance, eagerness for power, to direct the behavior of others
High handedness – showing no sign of regard to the rights of others
Oppression – prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or exercise of authority
Coercion – the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats
Tyranny – cruel and oppressive rule or control


GREED
Desire – strong feeling of wanting or wishing
ambition
Obsession – the continual preoccupation of idea or thought
Gluttony – overindulgence, excess of food, luxury or wealth
Greed of money, possessions, power
Gambling insatiability
Excessiveness – going beyond what is necessary or needed
Lechery – is unrestrained indulgence in sexual activity
Lust – lust for the flesh, money, fame
Seduction – temptation in attractiveness by means of a lesser form of manipulation
sexual lust
Sexual Misconduct – with oneself and others partners our spouses
Shamelessness – behavior marked by a bold defiance of the lack of shame
Ungrateful, ingracious – a disagreeable lack of thanks
Stingy – unwilling to share with others


FEAR
Discontent – dissatisfaction with ones circumstances
Dissatisfaction – the lack of satisfaction, content
Envy – a feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else’s possessions,
Jealousy
Ridicule – to subject someone to contemptuous language or behaviour
Sarcasm – the use of irony to mock
Belittlement – to make someone feel less important than yourself
Humiliation – to shame and humiliate others.
debasement
Derision – ridicule or mockery
self-denial, lack of self-worth,
self-hatred, self disrespect
Masochism – to derive sexual gratification from one’s own pain or humiliation
Melancholy – a feeling of pensive sadness, typically with no obvious cause
Pessimism – a tendency to see the worst aspect of things
Negativity – criticism or pessimism over something
Cowardice – a lack of bravery


FALSITY
Falseness – not being open and truthful
Lying – to oneself or others
Deceit, Deception – to mislead or misguide someone
Deviousness – to be deceitful and underhanded
furtiveness, hiding
Delusion – maintaining belief in something despite that of rational argument and proof
Denial – the refusal of the truth
Faithlessness – betrayal or disloyalty of moral or religious principles
Pretence – to make something that is not the case appear true
Imposture, fake – pretending to be someone or something other than yourself
deception
Manipulation – to manipulate ones dealings with others
Calculating – to be calculating in ones actions towards another.
Insidiousness – treacherous, crafty, intending entrapment via harmful rumours or misinformation


DISTRACTION
Inattentiveness – without paying attention or particular notice
Indifference – lack of interest concern or sympathy
laziness, sloth
unruliness, unable to easily accept instruction
impulsive and unpredictable, Capricious
Actions done suddenly and without forethought
Prodigal – excessive or wasteful spending or using resources freely and recklessly
Irresponsibile – lack of a proper sense of care or responsibility
Instability – tendencies towards unpredictable behaviour
Alcoholism, addiction, drug use
Cravings
Intoxication or inhibiting of the senses


IGNORANCE
Lack of awareness, understanding
Uncomprehending – the inability to grasp something even after logically argument
Uneducated, unwise, foolish
Garrulity – excessive talkativeness, tediously talking about trivial matters
Obstinacy – a stubbornness within ones mind
Intolerant – unwillingness to accept views, beliefs, or behaviour that differ from one’s own
Unyieldingness – inflexible in ones views or opinions
Stubbornness – sticking to one’s views, attitude or position on something or someone
Uncompromising – unwillingness to make concessions for others
Prejudice – preconceived opinion not based on experience or reason
Presumption – arrogant and disrespectful to the limits of what is permitted appropriate
intransigent (unwilling or refusing to change one's views or to agree about something)
Dogmatism – the tendency to lay down principles as truth, without evidence or opinions of others.
Hypocrisy – the claiming of higher standards than upholding


DISCOMPASSION
emotional instability, volatile
Unfriendly, unkind – being hostile towards others
cold, distant
Impudent – being rude and disrespectful
Contemptuous – a disregarding of something or someone
Baseness – lack of moral principles
Blasphemy – speaking badly about sacred or religious things
Discord – lack of harmony, empathy with others
Quarrelsomeness – continuous argument of everything
Critical, censorious – to find wrong in everything, severely critical
easily frustrated, limited patience
easily angered
Disrespect – showing a lack of courtesy to others and possessions
Effrontery – insolent or impertinent behavior
Grudging – in a reluctant or resentful manner (lack of care, forgiveness)
Callousness – insensitive and cruel towards others
Hard hearted – lacking in sympathy or compassion
Hatred – an intense dislike
Rage – uncontrollable violent anger
violent temper


ANGER, HARM
Spitefulness – desire to inflict injury or harm someone either physical or mental
Vindictiveness – to hold strong feelings of revenge towards someone
Abuse – of substance or person or animal
Cursing – to intend harm
Hostility – unfriendly or opposing tactics
Hurtfulness – to cause pain or injury especially psychological
Cruelty – behaviour that cause physics or mental harm to others animal or human
malignancy
Violence – to cause or inflict violence of any form.
Aggression – the action of attacking without provocation
Wrathful – characterised by excess rage or anger
Sadism – inflicting pain and suffering on oneself or others
Torment – a continuation of something that causes suffering mentally
Terrorise – to inflict mental of physical pain to animal or person
Mercilessness – having or showing no mercy, pity

The hero's journey

a path of enlightenment.

Shaman training and initiation

Thomas Szasz - Seek, above all, for a game worth playing. Having found the game, play it with intensity, play as if your life and psychological well-being depended on it, as indeed they do. Follow the example of the French existentialists and flourish engagement, moving as if your movements had some purpose. If life does not seem to offer a game worth playing, then invent one. Any game is better than no game at all.
Erikson - chart of emotional development. He notes that most adults become emotionally arrested at the level of vocational fulfillment, financial success, and a stable marriage.

Happiness is a sign, like the truck is fully functional, but if one thing is broken, the truck doesn’t run well. Similarly, many factors must be present to be happy, but only one or few amiss, and certainly people are suddenly not happy.

Given available energy, and the sight to recognize that some paths have more merit or application than others, just choosing the hero's journey is rare. Avoid inferior awareness, leading only to seek material comforts, well beyond that level actually required for bodily support, thus wasting the scant time given. Somehow, you can't speak the truth directly, neither will they hear, nor understand, for having looked upon the face of God, they would die. Thus, resorting to allegory and myth, the speaker gently loosens their bindings.

Self-initiation through the inner guide may lead to conscious and unconscious integration. The person learns how to handle issues of identity, love and intimacy, and finally death. However, pushing on our boundaries, we run the risk of losing our sense of identity. This is why true creativity is always associated with the genuine danger of self-destruction. By closing the gap between unconscious emotions and rational understanding of behavioral patterns, psychotherapy may facilitate healing of mental and emotional disturbances. This is 'The Hero's Journey' into conscious transformation, the age-old spiritual quest.

Mystics may use information drawn from the Tree of Life, summarized in the Tarot, which depicts interactive elements of the psyche as well as the archetypal forces of the universe. This is a 'ladder of consciousness,' which each aspirant may climb toward higher mystical states. The physical basis of experience is symbolized by the bottom of the ladder, and has to do with safety and sensory impressions. From there, we move into the realm of feelings, intuition, and ideas, ultimately progressing to states of deep meditation or semiconscious day-dreaming. The goal is to contact the 'still, small voice within,' as it has been reported in many spiritual texts that 'no man shall look directly upon the face of the Lord and yet remain alive.'

This is a symbolic journey from the ordinary sensory consciousness of physical life toward the psychic capacities encountered in the trance state. A type of trance is achieved in therapy, and native rituals, by interrupting ordinary awareness and creating a discontinuity, wherein the ego is temporarily overwhelmed or simply ignored. Prayer and near-death experiences may help to point the way, but it is up to the individual to tread the path. One harvests not only a knowledge of Self, but also first-hand experience in the imaginary realms, the vision of the soul if you will. We can finally put it all together as an integrated, whole person, enjoying new insights, personal freedom, and enhanced creativity.

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